Great feedback, guys. This is giving me some good stuff to work through before I pull it.
I took pics of my rebuild and just verified that I'd put the locking plate in correctly (from the top), so that's good.
However, I may not have put on enough thread sealant for the bottom center bolt that attaches the Dana 18 to the T90, so I'm going to pull it, clean it thoroughly, blow air through it to get and residual oil off the threads, goop the heck out of the bolt with sealant, and reinstall. If that ain't it, I'll weep softly and then pull the t-case.
I used black RTV on my bolts. Is there something better I might want to use?