I had to respond to this thread... humor and some good Jeep advice combined!
Rule #1: When you get married the 2nd time, be sure she owns a Jeep! (It worked for me.)
Rule #2: Explore options for alternative shipping addresses for your parts. It may save you tax if you work in one state but live across the border like me. It also keeps the parts boxes (and receipts / packing list) off the front porch. You know... out of sight, out of mind!
Rule #3: Tell her that you are restoring a piece of American automotive history and be sure to show her how much that Willys sold for at the Barrett Jackson (sp?) auction out west!
My wife accepts my Jeep addiction, but she also refers to my CJ3A as "the blonde *" (read: other woman), however, I like to refer to the CJ3A as "Old Yeller!"
I like my Willys Jeep for a lot of reasons. She lets me take a ride whenever I want. She doesn't care if I leave the garage door up or down. She doesn't get mad when I look at other Jeeps. She doesn't get mad when I look under the hood of my buddy's Jeep. She actually likes the calendars and magazines with photos of other Jeeps.
(I can go on...!) �;)