Posting images of what you're looking at for leaks would help immensely.
I may have used a gasket between the transmission/bell housing once, I don't remember. I haven't now for a long while. To me, any seepage of fluid you see on the outside is a potential leak. So try to follow back to where it may have come from.
The leaks you were observing inside the bell housing, before disassembling, had you topped off the gear boxes with lube before driving? How do you park the jeep, nose down on a slope?
I've never used the sealed bearing. I can't offer advice on that. I found all the leaks on my transmission and didn't need to do anything else.