Thanks for all the help guys. I had to take the wife's car down to the dealership yesterday for a recall fix, and while I was waiting I walked next door to Auto Zone to see if they had a loan-a-tool that would work. The puller type I wanted to try they didn't have and offered to order it for me, but they did have a slightly smaller C-shaped puller than the one that was too big from Harbor Freight. I decided to give it a try since it wouldn't really cost me any more than a drive back to the store to return it. It was still a bit too big to get a good gripe under the shoulder, but with some clever repositioning and a little ingenuity I was able to free the driver's side tie rod end. With a little more garage engineering I was able to get it to use a portion of the bell crank arm for some additional grip, the tie rod and bell crank soon became two pieces again.
Now if I could just figure out how to get a very stuck shackle bolt out of it's perch.

